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My sex life after having children

07 Tuesday May 2019

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Obviously, once you have children sex is not a priority anymore in your marriage. Besides the fact that you are absolutely knackered, busy, and there always seems to be something you are late for, you just don’t feel the same about sex.

I remember when I had my first daughter I really struggled to accept my body for a couple of years and my sex life suffered from it.

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Thoughts about beauty pageants?

23 Tuesday Apr 2019

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I ran into this article by The Sun today about a pageant girl who was born in a refugee camp, and it made me think about beauty pageants.

There’s a stereotype of the pretty but shallow young girl who’s forced into doing pageants by her mother. And my natural response to that is “poor child, she is being raised to value her worth based on her appearance…”

But then I remember that beauty pageants usually also have a talent section and general culture quiz, making it less about the looks… 

What are your thoughts on beauty pageants?

 

“Mistakes” women make in bed

18 Thursday Apr 2019

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So I ran into this article from the Daily Mail which talks about the “mistakes” that women make in bed.

The first one is failing to initiate sex…. which I disagree with, I could initiate sex but what if I want my husband to do it? I think it can be sexier to be chased….

I can see the rest being right though. Faking an orgasm: that must be horrible to see for men, or being to shy… oh well, in the recent years I haven’t had to worry too much about this, as my sex life is almost existent…

And what bothers you in bed, ladies?

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Love after menopause

09 Tuesday Apr 2019

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I will admit it, I am a bit scared of menopause. I know, it should be around 5-10 years away, but still I am not sure I know what to expect…

The no-more-periods part attracts me, but the hot flushes and the vaginal dryness… not really.  To be honest, it sounds almost surreal to me. A low libido? I just can’t imagine it!

I guess it’s part of life, but it’s a hard one to accept, it feels like us women have an expiry date. I promise myself I will keep my libido up no matter what!

How was your experience with menopause? Or are you scared of it getting closer and closer?

Thoughts about dating younger men?

28 Thursday Mar 2019

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I am finding myself very attracted to younger men these days. (There’s something I thought I would never say!) Not too young, just from their late 20s…

Being a cougar was frowned upon until recent years, when celebrities like Jennifer Lopez and Demi Moore married someone a decade younger than them, inspiring as all.

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After trying tinder, one of my oldest (and married) friends has been using IllicitEncounters.com  (a dating site for married people!) and has been having a two-years-affair with a guy who is 11 years younger than her! She says it makes her feel so much more alive… and she entertains me for hours talking about their adventures.

What are your thoughts on dating younger men?!

International happiness day

20 Wednesday Mar 2019

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Today is not only the spring equinox but also the global celebration of happiness.

At the World Happiness Summit in 2017, Jayme Illien said that the beginning of spring is a “universal phenomenon felt by all of humankind, a period of renewal and new beginnings, for all”.

Today I will be wishing everyone a great happiness day, I will take a nice bath and have a glass of wine, cook for my family and relax. Those kind evenings make me happy, even if just for one day.

What makes you happy?

How do you know if he is cheating

14 Thursday Sep 2017

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How can you tell if he is cheating? We assume that we would just know, feel it– but then they say that it’s always the ones you least suspect.

This article say that you can tell a man is cheating on you when he changes how he acts and takes more care of his appearance. Makes sense. Oh my, there is just no stability in relationships-not even marriage, you can NEVER really fully trust someone, can you?

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Plastic surgery- let’s stop judging.

16 Wednesday Aug 2017

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There are so many contrasting opinions on plastic surgery. It’s something we all tend to talk about – we judge or gossip our friends and acquaintances for getting lip fillers or nose surgery. Why is there a tendency to do that?

Other women are proud to take advantage of plastic surgery- maybe too proud, to the point of becoming addicted to it.

I think one should do it only if feeling extremely insecure, but is getting your nose done going to really help your confidence?

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Thoughts on porn?

12 Wednesday Jul 2017

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I have never been much of a fan of porn, but I think that’s a thing to do with how girls of my generation were brought up.

I “only” caught my husband watching porn twice, and it was as embarrassing as  I imagined. The first thought is : “why are you watching porn?” then I thought: “it’s normal, every man does it” but there is a small, inevitable part of me that wishes that all he needed to get turned on is a picture of me. I know, very unrealistic, but one can dream!

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“The talk”

17 Wednesday May 2017

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In every parents’ life comes the time for the “talk”. How babies are made, what goes where, and why you should always use protection.

My sister has a 9 years old daughter and she had to have the talk now because some kids at school told her about sex! She wasn’t expecting to have the talk with her daughter for at least another few years, but oh well, times have changed I guess.

Will you be giving/have you given the talk to your children yet?

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