Ha! I wish I knew. There are plenty of books, articles, videos and podcasts out there that promise to bring the sparkle back in your marriage… But do they work?

There are tips like talking to each other, being generous and finding the time for one another which are doable and certainly improve a relationship, but… the sparkle? That’s a different matter.

As bad as this may sound, I think that once the sparkle is gone, nothing can bring it back. Over time, passion becomes affection… and is that necessary bad?