Married dating site Illicit Encounters has seen a record high of new female members this January, with over 3,500 new sign ups. This peak in members is the highest new sign ups Illicit Encounters has had in it’s 11 years of business.
Spokesperson for Illicit Encounters Claire Page said, “There has been a clear change in attitudes toward adultery in the last few years, but 2015 indicates something much bigger.
“Women are coming to us with more awareness about their needs than ever before. From their profiles, you can see that our new ladies are looking for something more than just a quick fumble – they are looking for fulfillment, they expect something life-altering.”
Tiffany, 39, from West London, has been a member of the site for just over a week, “My decision to join was made out of frustration. Over Christmas, I spent over 3 weeks confined with my husband, who, after 12 years of marriage, only pays attention to me if I block his view of the television. I want to feel young and sexy again, I want to feel like a better woman. As my partner has made it clear he is incapable of helping me out, I have employed a more drastic measure.”
What do you think ladies? Is having an affair on your New Years Resolutions this January?
After working out some sort of plan to writing my New Years Resolutions, I have finally settled on 10 things I would really like to do this year. I have added in my list below- I hope to hear yours too. Sending you vibes of encouragement to achieve everything it is you set out to achieve.
1. Eat a more balanced diet
This one is just something I probably need to live by in general, but after the over-eating during the Christmas holidays- it’s time to start eating a little healthier.
2. Save at least an hour a week for exercise
Completely achievable. I have penciled in an hour each mid-week to give up completely to going for a run. No excuses!
3. Read More
I do actually read as often as I can- but life can sometimes get in the way, which has led to some books having been left unfinished, and many books I have bought with the intention to read have been left on the shelf. I pledge to read all of this before I start going out to get new books- this year I will read everything!
4. Indulge in things I like
I’m going to buy myself more. Once a month I will splash out on one nice thing for myself for no reason whatsoever. All to often I sacrifice getting myself something nice because I always ask myself whether I actually NEED something- well this year I pledge to buy things (sometimes) just because I WANT them.
5. Pay off credit card
Pay it off entirely and cut it up!!! OK. Don’t cut it, but stash it somewhere you won’t be using it when you shouldn’t really be using it.
6. Send more written cards
I personally love receiving handwritten cards- this year I’m going to make sure I give enough time to writing cards to friends and sending spontaneous letters abroad to people I usually connect with over social media or on the telephone. Hand written cards are back in!
7. Spend more one on one time with children
Dedicate more quality time with the children individually. I would like to give up more personal attention and learn more about my children and what they want and need from me as a mother.
8. Spend more one on one time with other half
Spend more quality time with my partner. Arrange the occasional night out where we can just go back to basics and enjoy a date together.
9. Tidy Less, Live More
I will remind myself that the world will not spontaneously blow up should I not make the bed one morning.
10. Go on a skiing holiday
My ultimate fun goal for the end of 2015! Organize a Ski holiday- I’ve been talking about it for several years and I think it’s about time we hit the slopes. This is the year I’ll make it happen.