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My sex life after having children

07 Tuesday May 2019

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female blog, having kids, marriage and children, sex and having children, sexless marriage, sparkle in marriage, women blog

Obviously, once you have children sex is not a priority anymore in your marriage. Besides the fact that you are absolutely knackered, busy, and there always seems to be something you are late for, you just don’t feel the same about sex.

I remember when I had my first daughter I really struggled to accept my body for a couple of years and my sex life suffered from it.

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Trust in a relationship

16 Tuesday Apr 2019

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I have always been a bit paranoid in my relationships. While my worries may be justified (apparently 1 in 5 Brits admit having an affair, which I think is more!) I should still be able to appreciate and enjoy my marriage.

I am not surprised at these statistics. With bombardment from the media about sex, dating apps and even cheating website like Ashley Madison or, in the UK, IllicitEncounters.com, how can someone fully trust their spouse?

This article explains how to build more trust in a relationship, for example say what you mean, and express your feelings. But that is my side, I… trust myself, what about my husband? What about him saying what he means and him expressing his feelings?

Have you got any advice on trust in a marriage?

Thoughts about dating younger men?

28 Thursday Mar 2019

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I am finding myself very attracted to younger men these days. (There’s something I thought I would never say!) Not too young, just from their late 20s…

Being a cougar was frowned upon until recent years, when celebrities like Jennifer Lopez and Demi Moore married someone a decade younger than them, inspiring as all.

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After trying tinder, one of my oldest (and married) friends has been using IllicitEncounters.com  (a dating site for married people!) and has been having a two-years-affair with a guy who is 11 years younger than her! She says it makes her feel so much more alive… and she entertains me for hours talking about their adventures.

What are your thoughts on dating younger men?!

How do you know if he is cheating

14 Thursday Sep 2017

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How can you tell if he is cheating? We assume that we would just know, feel it– but then they say that it’s always the ones you least suspect.

This article say that you can tell a man is cheating on you when he changes how he acts and takes more care of his appearance. Makes sense. Oh my, there is just no stability in relationships-not even marriage, you can NEVER really fully trust someone, can you?

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Thoughts on porn?

12 Wednesday Jul 2017

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I have never been much of a fan of porn, but I think that’s a thing to do with how girls of my generation were brought up.

I “only” caught my husband watching porn twice, and it was as embarrassing as  I imagined. The first thought is : “why are you watching porn?” then I thought: “it’s normal, every man does it” but there is a small, inevitable part of me that wishes that all he needed to get turned on is a picture of me. I know, very unrealistic, but one can dream!

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Sexual fantasies

15 Thursday Jun 2017

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Everyone has their own secret sexual fantasies… from sex with a celebrity, to role playing or having sex in public. But how do you explore this side of you after so many years of plain sex with your husband? You need to talk about it, and it needs to be a long and honest conversation…

This article by The Mirror reveals the top sexual fantasies in the UK anything that  resonates with you?

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Skinny vs Curvy

12 Wednesday Apr 2017

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Do men prefer skinny or curvy women? The unanswerable question! Most men nowadays say they prefer curvy- but is it true?

Tough to believe with the media bombarded by super skinny women… Oh well, as a curvy woman I like to think that different men have different tastes…

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