Love in the era of WhatsApp


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There are so many ways in which technology is influencing our lives and our relationships. This article explains how social media is changing our lives, and it gives tips on how to detoxify from your phone.

While it’s bad to text too much, I do believe texting and some cyber fun can add spark in a relationship. I have attempted “sexting” with my husband a couple of times and we definitely weren’t good at it… but it was so much fun to try!

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What are your thoughts on technology and love?

Thoughts about dating younger men?


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I am finding myself very attracted to younger men these days. (There’s something I thought I would never say!) Not too young, just from their late 20s…

Being a cougar was frowned upon until recent years, when celebrities like Jennifer Lopez and Demi Moore married someone a decade younger than them, inspiring as all.


After trying tinder, one of my oldest (and married) friends has been using  (a dating site for married people!) and has been having a two-years-affair with a guy who is 11 years younger than her! She says it makes her feel so much more alive… and she entertains me for hours talking about their adventures.

What are your thoughts on dating younger men?!

How to keep the sparkle in a relationship


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Old timers

Ha! I wish I knew. There are plenty of books, articles, videos and podcasts out there that promise to bring the sparkle back in your marriage… But do they work?

There are tips like talking to each other, being generous and finding the time for one another which are doable and certainly improve a relationship, but… the sparkle? That’s a different matter.

As bad as this may sound, I think that once the sparkle is gone, nothing can bring it back. Over time, passion becomes affection… and is that necessary bad?

International happiness day


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Today is not only the spring equinox but also the global celebration of happiness.

At the World Happiness Summit in 2017, Jayme Illien said that the beginning of spring is a “universal phenomenon felt by all of humankind, a period of renewal and new beginnings, for all”.

Today I will be wishing everyone a great happiness day, I will take a nice bath and have a glass of wine, cook for my family and relax. Those kind evenings make me happy, even if just for one day.

What makes you happy?

Why men cheat vs why women cheat


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We tend to think that while men cheat for sex, women do it for an emotional need. But as with time women become more independent, is this still the case?

This article by Psychology Today explains that not only women want romanticism, but that emotional connection is a major factor in female sexual arousal. Basically, we need to be both physically and emotionally turned on.

According to, a website for married people who want to cheat, rather than an emotional connection, women want attention because the spark in their marriage has gone…


Why do you think women cheat?

Sex is better after the age of 36 for women


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Beautiful girl have orgasmAccording to this article from The Daily Mail, after the age of 36 women have better sex than younger women.

I have previously written a post about confidence and age, and I think this is definitely a major factor in enjoying your sex life.

If you are accepting of your body you are more inhibited and fully enjoy your sexual experience.

As time passes by, you have more experience in that field and get to know your body better, what you like, what you don’t…

The article also says 6 in 10 women over the age of 36 have better orgasms than before…


Do you feel like your sex life has gotten better with age?


You’ve Never Had A Wet Dream About Your Girlfriend? You’re Lying.


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Don’t feel embarrassed, it’s very common, and it doesn’t mean that you are gay! Most of my married girlfriends had at least one lesbian dream, including me, and they there is nothing to freak out about.

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According to dream symbolism, having a lesbian dream could mean that you are feeling marginalised or unappreciated. In my opinion, it just means you are a bit sexually frustrated and your mind is exploring every corner of sexual fantasies… Or even in our cases, as bored wives, it might mean that we miss that sweet intimacy that comes with great sex and mental connection at the first stages of a relationship.

The Telegraph even suggests that gay dreams help you bond with other people of the same sex. So basically if you are having lesbian dreams, you are a great friend!


Leave a comment telling us if you ever had any naughty dream…

How do you know if he is cheating


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How can you tell if he is cheating? We assume that we would just know, feel it– but then they say that it’s always the ones you least suspect.

This article say that you can tell a man is cheating on you when he changes how he acts and takes more care of his appearance. Makes sense. Oh my, there is just no stability in relationships-not even marriage, you can NEVER really fully trust someone, can you?







Plastic surgery- let’s stop judging.


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There are so many contrasting opinions on plastic surgery. It’s something we all tend to talk about – we judge or gossip our friends and acquaintances for getting lip fillers or nose surgery. Why is there a tendency to do that?

Other women are proud to take advantage of plastic surgery- maybe too proud, to the point of becoming addicted to it.

I think one should do it only if feeling extremely insecure, but is getting your nose done going to really help your confidence?

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