One third of Adulterers believe that cheating doesn’t count when it’s done abroad.
IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s largest extra-marital affairs site, surveyed 1000 of it’s members and discovered that a whopping 33% admitted that they didn’t feel having a fling abroad was cheating.
The survey found that 28% of affair-seekers were planning a trip abroad to engage in some illicit fun this summer.
The surveyed also voted on the top European cheating destinations and found Prague to be the top contender.
What is interesting is that cheaters actually believe what they’re doing doesn’t constitute as cheating as long as it’s done on holiday; perhaps the anonymity of infidelity abroad minimizes the guilt factor, thus making it feel less deceptive.
Sierra, a female member using the site, said “What happens on holiday stays on holiday! It’s a universal rule. Every year I book a girlie getaway with my close pal Donna, who’s also married by the way. Our summer breaks are always very eventful, but nothing I want to write home about! Let’s just say a cheeky fling is always on the agenda, Donna and I both know it’s only some harmless fun. Our husbands drop us off at the airport and they’re right where we left them when we get back, none-the-wiser and perfectly happy to see us after a little break from each other. It’s win-win.”
Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Claire Page said “Let’s be honest here, what do you actually expect goes on – on a girls or lads holiday? Plenty of married people play away on holidays abroad; it’s just something nobody bats an eye at anymore.
Is it cheating? Apparently some think not, I can totally understand the thought process behind this though. The reason some people harbour any ill feelings towards their infidelity is due to the baggage that may follow them around, but if you can drop the baggage off on the conveyor belt at the airport – then the weight is quite literally off your shoulders.
If the problem doesn’t follow you home, then there’s no problem at all. So can cheating abroad not count? Yes, if you don’t let it.”
Top 5 European Cheating Destinations
Prague – Czech Republic
Majorca – Spain
Barcelona – Spain
Dublin – Ireland
Amsterdam – Netherlands
Love BWC xoxo
Recently a good friend of mine has discovered she is intolerant to gluten and has just switched her bread to a gluten free make called Genius.
I tend to eat fresh home-baked french bread in the mornings with the kids but it just so happens I had a free morning and was round my friends for breakfast where she used this gluten free bread. I too made a shocking discovery, I felt absolutely great mid morning after eating this bread. Now this might not seem strange to you, but to me it was, normally mid mornings I feel bloated and fatigued, and it led me to believe maybe I have the same gluten-issues as my friend!
Turns out many people seem to have mild, minor or major gluten intolerance without their knowledge! This kind of food is usually found in carbs like bread, pasta, cakes, biscuits etc… and I’m telling you, there are 100’s of gluten free options! I have now switched myself and the kids for the last two weeks and I’m feeling a noticeable difference.
The great thing is that supermarket aisles have a good range of organic food that is an alternative for people with allergies to certain foods.
Here are some of my favorites!
Genius Sliced Spicy Fruit Loaf (Gluten Free)
£2.50, you can buy it HERE
Doves Farm Organic Pasta (Gluten free, Wheat Free)
£2.00, you can buy it HERE
Nairn’s Biscuit Break Oat & Syrup
£1.75, you can buy it HERE
Mrs Crimble’s Gluten Free Coconut Macaroon
£1.20, you can buy it HERE
Sainsbury’s Freefrom Chocolate Brownies
£2.00, You can buy it HERE
Love BWC xoxo
According to data released by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest extra marital affairs site, Monday mornings is when more people message their flings.
The study found that in an average week the amount of messages that get sent between affair-seekers is 1.36 million. The research also revealed that the average amount of messages sent per hour is 8125, however, on a Monday between 8 – 9am this figure is 76992 or 6% of all messages sent in a one week period.
Members on the site also voted on the top tips to contact your lover without getting caught out.
The top three tips were –
1. Only ever contact your lover when you are in complete privacy.
2. Never call your lover by their real name, always refer to them as the same sex. (e.g. if her name is Christina call her Chris)
3. Don’t use your normal method of contact for your lover, have an alias email address and use a chat-app rather than texting.
Contacting your mistress or histress when you are alone makes sense, privacy ensures discretion. The last thing you would want is to speak to your lover in front of your spouse. Using a same sex code name may be used to further disguise who you are talking to – women don’t tend to be threatened by a husband’s male friend so this may help lower suspicion. Alternative methods of contact also allow affair-seekers added protection – the last thing you would want to do is send an iMessage to your lover that is synced with the family iPad.
Sandra a female member using the site said “Weekends are for family, that is my number one rule. But that also means I have little to no contact with my other lover during the time, and I really do miss him. Mondays I get the kids ready for school then my husband drives them up, as soon as he’s out the first thing I can think of is to check in with my part-time boyfriend and see how he’s been doing. It’s my favourite time of the week, butterflies in my stomach anxiously awaiting a reply!”
Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “You need to remember we have a lot of high flying professionals on the site, Monday 8am you’re either on your commute into work or already in the privacy of your office – perfect time to discretely send a much awaited message to your lover.
After the weekend cold-turkey of space from your lover, you’re sure to miss them come Monday! We’ve found that many of our members choose this time to keep their illicit love affair afloat and remind their lovers that they’ve been thinking about them.”
Love BWC xoxo
If you’re on the hunt for a lover, don’t diet! Affair-seeking men prefer voluptuous women.
IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest married dating site has discovered the key attributes that cheating men look for in a mistress.
The affairs site surveyed 1500 of its male members who are actively pursuing an affair to discover what they seek in a potential lover. The study reveals the majority of men prefer bigger ladies over women who are slim or toned.
Curvaceous came on top with 34% of the vote, beating Petite (24%) and Athletic (14%)
The findings also revealed Blue to be the most popular eye colour (27%) and men also preferred Blonde’s over any other hair colour (29%) for their mistress.
Sex appeal is naturally important to anybody looking for a sexual partner, what is interesting is that a large proportion of men are looking for a curvaceous, blue eyed, blonde. With 72% of the men surveyed in their 40s, perhaps they are rooting their fantasies back 20 years ago with films like Basic Instinct starring Sharon Stone, popularising the blonde bombshell archetype of a female.
Harry a member of the site said “I think most men are naturally attracted to curvy girls, they’re head turners. Ultimately this is about sex and curvaceous woman have sex appeal – no man can truly say he doesn’t find it difficult not to look at a woman with big hips and a voluptuous décolletage. Personally, I think big women are sexier and more confident – far more enticing then a stick insect, let’s be honest. My wife is quite the opposite, slim and conservative – but I’m not with her for the sex.”
Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “It’s important to know that the male age demographic of affair-seekers is typically older, and these men will have been growing up when curvy women were celebrated, Marilyn Monroe, Cindy Crawford, Pamela Anderson – to name a few.
Curvy women are more aesthetically pleasing and look healthier, who would want Keira Knightly when they can have Shakira – the proof is in the pudding!
Its time women stopped dieting and starting embracing their sexy natural figures, anyway, everybody knows bigger women bounce better in bed – and sex burns calories.”
Love BWC xoxo
Hope you’ve all been having fabulous weeks in the Sun, the weathers been kind to us recently..
I’ve only got one qualm about good weather, and that is – I seem to eat more!! What is strange, is that my friends tell me they always loose weight in the Summer months, and put it back on in the Winter. I seem to be quite the opposite – Winter I think of as a time to spend indoors – this means I prepare better food that is high in protein and low in fat, I also spend a lot more of my time in the gym!
In the summer it’s a totally different story! I pig out when I’m out in town, and don’t feel like cooking very often (it’s too hot!) so in come the takeaways. Not only that, but I do not exercise as often, being stuck in a gym when it’s beautiful outside? It’s a no brainer.
Now, I’ve been seeing the weight pile on a little, it’s not totally tragic but we’re well on the way to loosing all my hard work over the chillier months in getting a healthy happy body!
So, I’m going to share with you my quick and easy way sustain your figure. I do allow myself a cheat MEAL once a week (not a cheat day). I Also alternate days to keep it fresh 😉
Here are two typical days in my Food Diary.
A handful of nuts and berries.
Excellent sources of good fats and it keeps you full for quite awhile. I usually opt for Almonds, Hazlenuts, Cashews and Raisins and dried strawberries.
Day’s when I have a small breakfast, I go for a BIG lunch. Go hard or go home 😉
Usually I will opt for a meaty meal such as grilled chicken with sweet potatoes, a better alternative to normal potatoes and a side salad.
After quite a big dinner, I opt for a delicious salad in the evenings. You can really get creative here! Choose your favorite veg and/or fruit and away you go.
I do love a good breakfast, and as the day before I only allowed my body nuts – day two I’ll go for something cooked. This is always an eggy breakfast, either poached egg, fried egg, boiled egg, soft-boiled egg! On rye bread with some good veggies such as steamed asparagus, broccoli – maybe some avocado!
After such a hearty breakfast, I will go for a light lunch such as soup! Nothing quite beats a good soup! I usually make a big pot and freeze half ready to defrost another week. I usually opt for tomato soup, chicken soup, beetroot soup, brocolli and cheese soup, vegetable soup – the list is endless! Just pick your flavor and away you go.
By now I’m feeling quite hungry, so I’ll cook up a stir… stir-fry that is! Chuck in your favorite veg into a wok and hey presto!
During the course of both days I’ll snack on healthy things like edamame beans, banana, low fat rice cakes. Anything that isn’t sweets or crisps. Junk food tolerance- ZERO!
Of course, you should always allow yourself on guilt free meal at least once a week.. mine seems to be pizza 🙂 I sit and eat the whole huge thing to myself with extra cheese and extra sauce – yum!
What are your healthy eating routines? Feel free to share!
Love BWC xoxo
Britons have spoken, Toni Duggan voted the sexiest female footballer from the 2015 England FIFA squad.
IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest married dating site polled 600 of its male members and found Toni Duggan to be the sexiest England footballer in the World Cup with 17% of the vote, followed by Alex Greenwood (14%) and Katie Chapman (10%).
The England Lionesses suffered a tragic defeat against Japan last night, but amidst the devastation the women can take consolation in the knowledge that they’re still getting their male fans hot under the collar. Although more bad news for Laura Bassett who ended the semi-finals by kicking the ball into their own goal, she only came in at 1% in the poll.
Winger Toni Duggan topping the poll comes as no surprise – she’s an obvious winner. Duggan is a stunning blonde bombshell with a figure to die for. It seems that blondes are favourite, with Alex Greenwood and Katie Chapman both donning blonde hair.
Ricky a member on the site said “Women playing sports is just so hot, it puts them in league with men and I think we respect them all the more for it. Someone faster, better and stronger than you – who still looks feminine and sexy, er, what more could you want? Put any man in a room with Toni Duggan and dare them not to flirt – very few could stop themselves. I’d learn to do a 1,000 kick up’s in a row to bag a date with a footballer, no other body can measure that kind of fitness.”
Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “It’s official: the lionesses are making British men roar! Forget the World Cup loss, we’re still team GB! The ladies have done us proud getting to the semi-finals and now we will celebrate them in style.
Can you be surprised our men find these incredible women attractive? It’s standard practice that footballers train hard to remain strong and lean, and the girls are fit on and off the pitch! Naturally this means they will have outstanding figures, and it seems that our British men think so too!
Toni Duggan deserves to come in first place, she is glamorous and sporty – this is a mix that doesn’t come around often, and boy is it attractive.”
Top 5 Sexiest Female Footballers