As The UK’s leading married dating site today hits 1 million members, IllicitEncounters.com is releasing a survey showing that having sex in your forties is the best period.
It seems quality trumps quantity when it comes to sexual satisfaction; the UK’s largest married dating site has revealed that our 40’s are the best decade to have sex, even though we’re having less of it.
The affairs site surveyed 385 women and 443 men and found that 37.4% of women and 34.5% of men believed that the best time to have sex was in their 40’s.
The next best age is 30’s with 23% of women selecting this age and 26.2% of men.
The study also concluded that men and women have the most sex in their 20’s with 56% voting for twenties to be the peak in their sex life with the majority of their sexual liaisons happening at this time. Forty’s faired significantly lower with only 12% suggesting that the number of sexual partners you have is less significant to the quality of the sex.
The main reason for those selecting their forties was that they felt more sexually experienced at this time.
This completely quashes a recent survey by Healthspan saying that most people have gone off sex by the age of 41. It seems those opting to have an affair experience a whole new lease of life sexually, and whilst they may have gone off their partners they have rediscovered the joy of sex with IllicitEncounters.com.
A female member on the site commented ‘‘I think women as they get older realise they deserve better sex and therefore they demand more attention’ with another adding ‘In my thirties I had small children and I was more committed to my domestic arrangements. Now in my forties I feel free and liberated. The kids are older and less demanding on me.’ However, men seemed to be a little more blasé with one member saying ‘To be honest so far, given the chance, I’d have sex all the time, at any stage through my life to date’
Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “The twenty year olds are having plenty of sex, but the forty year olds are actually enjoying it. Forty year olds have less hang-ups than 20 year olds, and a plethora of experience under their wing – they really know what they want out of their intimate life – and that’s great sex! The fact that many people said they felt a heightened sex drive at this time also suggests that our forties are the best time to rediscover our sexuality. By making better choices in sexual partners were able to enjoy sex with the right person, which plays a massive factor in how good the sex actually is. This is particularly significant when taking into account we have the most sexual partners in our twenties and yet people feel that sex in your twenties is the worst! We are in much better control over our sexual satisfaction the older we get, choosing quality over quantity!”
Girls and women alike are using tan injections to make their skin darker, say what? This cannot be healthy! From what I’ve learnt it is a chemical compound called Melanotan II which darkens the skin – this has not been fully tested or approved for consumption and yet thousands of people across the world are ordering this product to give themselves a fake tan. I simply cannot believe that something that can make you change color can possibly be any good for you!
Recently a man called Ryan Ruckledge went on ITV This Morning to talk about his addiction to tanning injections, to date he claims he has spent £25,000 on the product.
He said ‘I get nausea, stomach cramps, dizzy spells and panic attacks. I don’t know if it’s from that though, I might just be being dramatic because I’m quite a dramatic person.’
WHAT!? This young man should stay away from this potentially harmful and untested product. However, you can tell he is clearly addicted, also saying ‘‘It’s an addiction. I could never walk down the street pale, I’d feel physically sick. I just hate being pale,’
I’m extremely worried about the usage of tanning injections and how many of our young it may be affecting.
Nigella Lawson and James Martin have topped a poll on sexiest celebrity chefs according to new research released today by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest married dating site.
The affairs site polled 750 women and 700 men to vote on their celebrity chef crush with James Martin topping the poll with 29% of the vote and Nigella Lawson with 56%.
In the male category Gordon Ramsay came second with 20% of the vote, and in joint third place Jamie Oliver (11%) and Marco Pierre White (11%)
In the female category Rachel Khoo came in second with 13%, and third place Loraine Pascale (9%)
James Martin winning suggests his straightforward, down to earth and possibly his northern charm appeals to a large majority of women. It is surprising though that the alpha-male of the bunch Gordon Ramsay didn’t fare better. What came as a shock, however, is Jamie Oliver received a significantly small amount of votes even though he was voted the nation’s greatest celebrity chef of all time in a recent poll commissioned by The Hundred-Foot Journey.
It is also interesting that 55 year old Nigella Lawson beat the younger and fresher faced Rachel Khoo who is only 34, indicating that age is nothing but a number when it comes to levels of attractiveness. The fact that Nigella Lawson also has a history of controversy didn’t seem to deter the public vote, with alleged drug use and advocating fur to add to her media portfolio she is seen to have a rebellious streak, whereas Rachel Khoo comes across as the sweet girl next door with no bad publicity.
Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Claire Page said “ I’m astounded that Gordon didn’t win. He is dauntless and self-assured and his personality speaks volumes. Personally, I’m completely hooked on watching him take charge in the kitchen, and I’d place my bets that it’s a similar event in the bedroom! Forget Christian Grey, Gordon Ramsay any day!”
Sacré bleu – Rachel Khoo? More like Rachel Who, according to the results. It is Nigella Lawson that steals the nations hearts. An absolute beauty, quirky and mesmerising to watch; women want to be her and men want to marry her; the proof is in the pudding!
As a nation we are fascinated with celebrity chefs, after all food and sex are kindred; everybody knows that food has aphrodisiac qualities – think about it, champagne, chocolate and strawberries? It’s a recipe for romance.”
IllicitEncounters.com the largest married dating site in the UK has revealed that 6% of their members are in fact single and not married or attached. With statistics released this week that report 42% of Tinder users are married – it seems extra-marital affairs sites are more relevant now than ever.
The 6% of members who are single admit so openly too, many prefer a relationship with someone that is attached – not wanting a full-time relationship but rather a part-time one where there is no confusion about their intentions. Dating a married man or woman can be more convenient for someone who is single and simply doesn’t want the emotional stress that comes with a conventional relationship.
Tinder advertises itself as a dating App that allows you to anonymously swipe members you like. But with features such as connecting your Instagram account or seeing their Facebook photos makes this App less than discrete. Now that stats reveal that almost half of it’s members are in a relationship this can be very misleading for the genuine Singles who have signed up to the site.
With an extra-marital dating site like IllicitEncounters.com what you see is what you get – the majority of members are married and admit so openly. The discretion is assured and allows married members to seek others in the same situation as themselves and not rock any boats within their marriage.
Susan, 41 year old single member on IllicitEncounters.com said ‘I’ve been down the route of what people call ‘normal’ dating, and it just isn’t for me. I do have a partner who is married and I wouldn’t want it any other way. We are very much in love and whenever we do see each other there is an incredible connection between the two of us – but I think I would shoot myself if I needed to spend all of my free time with him. I just don’t think men and women should live together, I like my own space and I like to invite him to join me from time to time. I respect he has a family to go home to, his wife – his life I say. I love my freedom, I am fiercely independent and enjoy my own space, that is why having a boyfriend who is married is very convenient for me.’
Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Claire Page said “We’ve all heard Tinder horror stories. There are countless sites that are dedicated to naming and shaming Tinder-weirdos, and many people sign up to the app then leave fairly quickly because of the strange communication they have received. As far as dating platforms go – Tinder is regarded as the one for ‘hook-ups’. Those members that are in a relationship are heading down a dangerous path as it will be hard to cover their tracks, not least because the App is installed on your device and phone probably in reach of a significant other.
Top 10 Reasons to Date a Married Man
No commitments. You can meet them as and when you agree upon, and you don’t have to feel bad about doing what you want when you want, or who you want.
Married men are more honest. As you are not their primary relationship they will share more about their feelings because between the two of you – there is nothing to hide.
A married man will give you more attention. They will shower you with affection because this is what they are normally missing from their married life.
Married men put in more effort. The new found spark will revive them and that honeymoon period you so often see when you first enter a relationship is ever-present.
You will never need to compromise your own life. Don’t have time to see him? That’s perfectly fine. Never will you need to cancel on an event, or fear seeing a friend because you don’t want to upset your partner – the married man will understand you have your own life to lead.
No bunny boilers. Jealousy is a thing of the past, no need to worry about the green-eyed monster; you have an agreement that you are sharing each other.
No emotional baggage. Their problems are their problems; you don’t need to take them home with you. When you enter a relationship you’re normally faced with that person’s baggage – but a married man’s suitcase don’t belong to you.
You can leave him. Once you’ve fulfilled your own needs or desires, you have no obligation to remain in the relationship. You want out? There’s no need to draw up a list of pros and cons, you can simply walk away.
It’s a secret. An illicit Romeo and Juliet. There’s just something saucy about it being just between the two of you, many people fantasize about a secret love affair.
Incredible sex life. Married men are better in bed, they may be in a sexless marriage so they will try extra hard to please you in the bedroom.
With election fever gripping the nation, IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading married dating website, has released data revealing the UK’s most unfaithful constituencies.
ElectionInfidelity.com cross-references the data of almost 1 million adulterers against the constituency they are in to reveal the illicit political hotspots within the United Kingdom.
Whilst conservatives are the most unfaithful voters, 4 of the top 5 most illicit constituencies are Labour:
Greenwich and Woolwich
Leyton and Wanstead
Overall, Conservatives just pipped Labour to the post with the most unfaithful constituencies with a ranking of 13.67% against Labour’s 13.08%
Scotland has fared very well with only one constituency within the top 20. SNP voters also came in low with a ranking of only 8%
The most faithful constituency was Leigh in Greater Manchester.
Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Simon Francis said: “The results speak for themselves with the mainstream constituencies having the most unfaithful voters. What’s interesting is that smaller parties came in so low suggesting that the same moral compass that guides our personal lives is also prevalent within our voting habits. But if you can’t trust Labour or Conservative to stay faithful then how can we trust them to run our country.”
The number of people cheating in each constituency was calculated using the postcode data of 995,000 members of IllicitEncounters.com. This was then ran against the number of people eligible to vote in each constituency to give a percentage or Infidelity Index for that area.
The party ranking was calculated by taking the party holding the seat in the constituency of all our members.
Seat party holder is based on who won the seat in the 2010 General Election. Overall Party rankings